Make believe and Made to believe

It is easy for a little child to believe in something- in Santa, in the fact someone bad is going to take them away if they don't eat their meals, they are even creating an illusion their parents are God-Like creatures. In a case of an earthquake, they are begging their fathers to stop the ground from cradling. Even when a teenager, a young girl believes in romance, in love in her prince and boys believe in epic battles. But why is it hard for someone to believe in a cause that others disapprove. It is strange to understand someone who had no idea what is important for him to make a live-change and to tell you how he has received a message above and this made him do thing he would never think of in the past. So, what is this very persuasive thing that could make a person make the turn? Of course, different for everyone. “Who could make me believe in him? Who could gain my trust? No one, except … Except, I don't know, someone who has done something for me and was punctual in doing it”- this could be logical, yes. And it is understandable- so as the phrase “because he's important to me”. But why do we have to trust people who we care about? Does it have to be like that? You could love someone with all the passion and your hear t could be his, but why do you have to believe him? It is natural, yes. But could you change it? Will it make you love him less? Or you could understand him and love him more? Why do you have to promise him something? It is not necessary at all. And where does trust end? Is there such thing as “ I completely trust you?” Yeah, maybe yes. But there is a difference between being this exact person will keep your secrets safe and believing the person will do something for you. So, complete trust and complete depending are different things that shouldn't be messed with. But why do people want to believe others? Are we really made to believe people or people make us believe them? Is really someone so persuasive that could make another one sell his/her house? Or the one who sells his/her house is persuaded that he doesn't deserve it? Maybe both. But the really reason, as for me, is the lack of hopes, or even painful- the lack of someone u can count on, someone you would do everything for …