People who are able only to discuss others

It is a very thin line standing between who u were yesterday and who are you today. Maybe only one thing is for sure- your ambition. It is the wish of doing something what makes you a human being. And what does not is the waiting for something.
If you look at a one-year-old, you will see the baby is trying to make all the things itself and doesn't wait for anything. It is constantly showing and even trying to say what it wants. And we, the adults, have lots this abilities. We are trying to build a pyramid of prerogatives and we are afraid to confess what exactly we want.
But the people I can't stand are people, who don't even have prerogatives. All they do is wait for something to get from someboby/somewhere, etc. They really get on my nerves and the only exclusion I can make is for old friends. Friends, though, is not the right work. I can clearly realize that I cannot call these people so, because they don't care about me. In fact, they hardly ever care at all. Well, maybe only who they can get something from.
If they recognize in the the cow who could be milked, so be it. I could give them only one last final advice - to be active, to do something on their own, instead of trying to compare with me or with others. Because all the successful people are people, getting up every morning with desire- doing things, working, having rest, travelling, not trying to guess what to complain of. I call it desire of living.