People who are able only to discuss others

It is a very thin line standing between who you were yesterday and who are you today. Maybe only one thing is for sure- your ambition. It is the wish of doing something what makes you a human being. And what does not is the waiting for something.
If you look at a one-year-old, you will see the baby is trying to make all the things itself and doesn't wait for anything. It is constantly showing and even trying to say what it wants. And we, the adults, have lost these abilities. We are trying to build a pyramid of prerogatives and we are afraid to confess what exactly we want.
But the people I can't stand are those who don't even have prerogatives. All they do is wait for something to get from someboby/somewhere, etc. They really get on my nerves and the only exclusion I can make is for old friends. Friends, though, is not the right word. I can clearly realize that I cannot call these people so, because they don't care about me. In fact, they hardly ever care at all. Well, maybe the ability to listen to you excuses them from being there for you when you need them. And before you stands only the choise what kind of person you want to become- a one who needs help or the one one who needs to be understood ...